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This community originally started as an "in joke" after several friends suggested I run an advice column, but it has evolved over the years. However, the truth of the matter is I don't know jack, but I do come forth with some solid advice and opinions from time to time.

Most often I make posts "erotic in nature", and will share information about trying to conceive, pregnancy, etc. This is all a crap shoot.

ALL members can post asking for advice about anything, and may comment on other enteries, if they have any thoughts to share. The interests listed in the community's info are a "rough guideline" to help everyone get a feel for things we discuss on here. If you want to ask for advice and opinions it is best that you make your own post, instead of adding it in the comments of a different post, that way everyone is sure to see your inquiry. Otherwise feel free to discuss any of the existing posts within the comments section of the topic.

A little bit about me: I'm just a woman who has strong opinions, and a fair amount of knowledge on certain topics. I won't lie to you, but I'm not a "trained specialist", so I don't claim to know any more than anyone else, aside from my own personal experience and anecdotes. Several members of this community have ample knowledge on a variety of topics, and they will offer advice and offer opinions as well. When I started this blog years ago, I was single, and had no children. Those were two of my biggest goals I'd had for my life. Then I got married, then I became a mommy, and these were things I really wanted, so I'd like to think I can offer solid advice to someone.

Enough about me. I'm not the only one who will be offering up advice.

It is my hope that in this community people will come forth with something they need advice with, or need to get off their chests, and several members will offer up their two cents. Perhaps I'll just play master of ceremonies, and make sure to throw up a topic every couple of weeks.

Are you trying to conceive? Are you bi-curious? Have hot crush? Pregnant? Nervous about breastfeeding? Need tips for a hot date? Sexually attracted to asphalt? Whoooo cares. It doesn't matter. Ask anything and I will try and answer (within reason), if I'm totally stumped one of the other members here will likely share advice.

No homophobia, racism, or any other sorts of foolishness will be tolerated.

Please do not use the marquee tag. Please do not change the color of your text, either.

This community is not one of those communities meant solely to insult or injur peoples feelings. This community most certainly will have some humor added, but no mean stuff, please. Community members are encouraged to become friendly with each other, and "hang out". Please do be polite to honest posts/inquiries.

If your post is about trying to conceive please either use a tag that says ttc, or add "trying to conceive" in the text of your post. If your post is about pregnancy please either use a tag that says pregnancy, or add "pregnancy" in the text of your post. If your post is about a crush you have, please either use a tag that says crushes, or add "crushes" in the text of your post. If your post is about rekindling your sex life please either use a tag that says sex, or add "sex life" in the text of your post. You get the picture. Add a tag to your post, or add text within the post stating the topic at hand. Thanks!
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